unsaidwalk's posterous

I must say that you are the one creating your own limitation. You are the one who put limits on yourself; for you are the one responsibe for your own thinking, You are the one who feeds your mind, what kind of thoughts do you meditate? In the past experiences I had been through, I think I was twelve years old, I learned how important it is to be cautious on the thoughts I thought about because I observed a cycle--what I Think I Feel ,what I feel I Act. The thoughts you have in your mind will be soon manifested in your body and when your body gets the message of the thoughts you have in your mind you will soon start acting it in accordance to what you are feeling. Brief, the feeling started with a thought from thought you started feeling it, from feeling it you started acting it and the root of that action and feeling is from your thoughts.

You are powerful, if only you acknowledge that you are. Acknowledge is defined as recognizing the existence (of something). You are the one who controls your thoughts, you are the one who controls your mind; Therefore, you are the one who create your own bounderies and limits. The key is YOU and the limit itself is YOU.

Moral, be careful of what you think for it will become your words, becareful of your words because it will become your actions, be careful of your actions because it will become your character and be careful of your character because it will become your destiny.

(supposed, this entry should be posted only in my Anekantvad ... but since it tacles about perspective I've decided to repost it in my posterous;))

 Happiness is not a question to be ask. And being happy is not dependent on other people.

Indeed, hearing " you make me happy or you are my happiness" is sweet, but our own happiness is not the job of other people, family, friends or whoever.

Being happy is a personal choice. Happiness is never dependent on material gains. YOU CAN BE VERY WEALTHY YET; BE VERY EMPTY. Happiness is a choice of perspective.

In life, disappointments are inevitable, but to be disappointed is a choice, your choice. Obstacles are even inevitable , but it exist for us to be strengthen. In my view, every situation that we are facing good or bad, it exist, for our own advantage, we might not understand directly 'why' but I'm certain; every situation happens for a reason. We might sometimes be disappointed because of scarcity,or maybe the way we want things or situation to be, didn't happen the way we have expected, but that does not mean what we have been wanting will not happen, it will happen,  we just have to understand the season, the timing and to still keep moving and overcome rough times. Keep hope and faith.

 This boy, Cody, Is such a great example of perspective, by how he live his every day life, the activities that he is doing, represent that he is not limiting himself in doing something he desired doing, He didn't see himself  uncapable but instead he see himself CAPABLE.  He understood; not having his 2 legs does not mean his life will be disabled and he was on limit, but he see himself as an overcomer and capable of doing what other people are capable of. He dream big. So, Dream big, bigger as well!

" I have insecurites. But whatever I'm insecure about, I don't dissect it, but I'll go after it and say, " what am I afraid of?" I bet the average successful person can tell you they've failed so much more than they've had success. I've had far more failures than I've had successes.  With every commercial I've gotten, there were 200 I didn' get. YOu have to go after what you're afraid of." - Kevin Sorbio

As you move forward on  your journey from where you are to where you want to be, you are going to confront your fears. Fear is natural. whenever you start a new project, take on a new venture, or put yourself out there, there is usually fear. Unfortunately, most people let fear stop them from taking the necessary steps to achieve their dreams. Successful people, on the other hand, feel the fear along with  the rest of us but don't let it keep them from doing anything they want to do--or have to do. They understand that fear is something to be acknowledged, experienced, and taken along the ride, they have learned to FEEL the FEAR and DO it anyway.

I think, one of the very reasons why most people don't get what they've been wanting to have-- it's because of fear, fear to fail, fear to be rejected, fear to make mistakes. I'm not saying that I conquered "fear" already, I have to say- I'm just like you- fearful. But i'm also thinking how long will I let fear to take hold of me; from doing and having something I want, when this (fear) feeling is inevitable but can be handeled and that is through feeling fear and still doing it. I think that we all have what it takes to succeed, its all inside us; we just have to conquer.

" Take the first step in faith. You don't have to see the whole staircase. Just take the first step."

" Oftentimes, success happens when you just lean into it--when you make yourself open to opportunities and are willing to do what it takes to pursue it further--- without a contract, without a promise of success, without any expectation whatsoever. You just start. You lean into it. You see what it feels like and you find out if you want to keep going--- instead of sitting on the sidelines deliberating, reflecting, and contemplating.

One of the most extraordinary benefits of just leaning into (desires etc.) is that you begin creating momentum-- that unseen energy force that brings more opportunity, more resources, and more people who can help you into your life at seemingly just the right time for you to benefit the most from them.

Of course, just leaning into a project or opportunity also means you must be willing to start without necessarily seeing the entire pathway from the beginning. You must be willing to lean into it and see how it unfolds. Often we have dream and because we can't see how we're going to achieve it, we are afraid to commit ourselves because the path is unclear and the outcome is uncertain. But leaning into it requires that you be willing to explore-- to enter the unknown waters, trusting that a port will appear. Simply start, then keep taking what feel like logical next steps,a nd the journey will ultimately take you to where you want to go-- or even somplace better. "

" To acquire love... fill yourself up with it until you become a magnet"

- Charles Haanel

....When you want to attract something into your life, make sure your actions don't contradict your desires.

pg.115 if the Secrets

" You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself.-Jim Rohm-"

 I'd been thinking that "at some point, we are left with no choice but to -keep on. No rooms for complaints and no rooms for excuses; the only room left is for us to chose to be better or get bitter. And most of the time that's what 'changes' leave us with. Better or Bitter. So, learn how to sail and flow along the current. Rough times are not meant to be experience for a long period of time, it is just a season in life. But we need to remember the spand of time that 'it' stay depends on our response, for " EVENT + RESPONSE = OUTCOME"

 Life itself is not made by luck but It is shape by every decision and action that was made. And success will  only happen when we learn to acknowledge that we are the one who create  everything that happens in our spectrum. That means all result, both successes or failures.  

IT IS quite to get approval if ask  enough people, or if we ask those who are likely to tell us what we want to hear. The likehood is that they will say nice things rather than be too critical. Also, we tend to edit out the bad so what we hear only what we want to hear.

So if you have produced a pleasantly acceptable piece of work, you will proved to yourself that it's good simply because others have said so.

It is probably ok. But then it's probably not great either.

If, instead of seeking approval, you ask, 'what's wrong with it? Ho can i make it better?', you are more likely to get a truthful, critical answer.

You may even get an improvement on your idea. And you are still in a position to reject the criticism if you think it is wrong.

Can you find fault with this?

What you learn at school are facts, known facts. Your job at school is to accumulate and remember facts. The more you can remember, the better you do.

Those who fail at school are not interested in facts; or maybe the facts are not put to them in a way they find interesting.

Some people simply don't have a great faculty for memory. It doesn't mean they are stupid/ It means their imagination hasn't been fired up by academic tuition.

People who are conventionally clever get jobs on their qualifications (the past), not on their desire to succeed (the future).

Very simply, they get overtaken by those who continually strive to be better they are.

As long as the goal is there, there is no limit to anyone's achievement.